Seeking intention
Seeking emotional intention means learning how to tear away the restraints that hold us back.
It also means intolerance of any attempt to put the shackles back on.
This intolerance can be learned. But it can also feel innate. The forces of attraction and repulsion aren't just physical.
We soon learn to reject what we once held as normal.
Eventually we don't need our brain to tell us what we should do, because our intuition already knows.